As another traveler stated, it is not huge, but nothing in New York really is. For us, it was large enough to easily get ready in the morning with no problem. I would agree; if a large bathroom is necessary speak to the manager; they are more than happy to accommodate if possible.
Depends upon what you consider large or small. As someone who stays in hotels quite often, I personally did not consider it small. Neither would I have called it huge. If you have the need for a larger than usual bathroom it might be a good idea to contact the hotel directly. I am sure the staff there would be happy to help.
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